Tuesday, 2 September 2014

BLANK SHEETS ALLOW FOR COLOR

I am in my sweat pants and my green vest people!! I never thought this moment would come again after my whirlwind of a weekend. There are some life moments that are so intense and capturing that you feel held by them forever. Well, the lipstick has been washed off, heels taken off , my Little Black Dress smells of my perfume, my globe trotters perfume and of course the Hunters Gold I spelt on myself and the whiskey the white lady with the dreadlocks spelt on my back. I almost don’t feel like washing it. It’s my little time capsule. I am back to my life where 5AM is the time I wake up and not look for a cab to hail with my heels in my hands. I thought I had out grown some things honestly and I have, but this weekend was the spontaneous recovery of my crazy manners. The cool part is I was sober enough to remember it all.

I remember the way my friends and I looked when we toasted to the weekend, eager and curious about what was coming ahead. Hemlines a little too short and make up more bold, we were ready. After dinner we headed to Civics centre. I was ready to be wowed. And let’s just say I was not disappointed. After the very familiar Pompi set came Zimboita. You have not seen talent and energy until you have seen Zimboita and their lead singer Blessing Chimanga. He is the type of talent that makes even the most ill-tempered person smile. Especially with that “Joy in my heart” song. I had heard it before but I was there singing along In Shona and losing my voice in the process. That is the thing about Zimboita, every experience with them is so fresh. Doubt me? Look them up on YouTube or Facebook, of course the videos won’t be the same as them live. But whatever.

Then I went back stage and bumped into a very familiar looking lady. Literally bumped into her, I’m not petite so I held her and asked her if she was okay. She responded and smiled. My jaw hit the ground when I realised it was Zolani of Freshly Ground. By the time I found my tongue and picked up my grass covered jaw from the ground she was gone and was getting ready to begin her set so no people, I didn’t take a selfie with her at that point. Her set was amazing. Amazing. Freshly Ground is yet another world wonder that everyone must see before they die. Zolani doesn’t perform. She gets lost in the art and the music and she carries you with her. The band exudes such finnesse and life in their authentic craft; that's such a rare combination of qualities these days. They radiate pure emotion, be it joy or depth.This is not an event review but I must say I was thoroughly blown away; shed a tear when she sang I’d like and Nomvula and I ignored my globe trotter the entire time, and he is fine. Freshly Ground is that good.

Okay now let me cruise through the rest. We raided a photo booth and took the most awesome best friend pictures capturing our madness and our youth. We ate too much pizza, so much pizza that there was no awkward battle for the last slice. I braided a beard. I learned Italian and Portuguese phrases. I met Linda, and from the Portuguese I learned apparently Linda means beautiful. I’ll tell her that when I see her. I loved Roxy’s dress! Sweet soul. I danced with the stars. Literally and figuratively. I was dancing with stars outside under the stars. Sky bar was insane. Insane. Lay on the floor dancing kind of insane. Fernandez is an awesome Dj. Do not be fooled by the kind and quiet demeanour, he is a beast, the kind of beast that can make Hitler twerk. I met Bibi of Zed Naturals, so much hair porn for me. I lusted after her hair until I came and she was so much fun too! I’m kind of controversial so when somebody can just take my random comments lightly I really appreciate it and I feel boundless around them. I met Julia, whose son is Nagesh (Prince soon to be King), she’s cool. I met Adam, his Chitenge sling bag and his nice friend who is too familiar. I made a video at Intercity with my friends.

I remembered to laugh, I remembered to give and to receive. I learned to experience new things and new people. I loved my friends and the strangers’ authentically. I got lost to music and the great moments. I had given myself a blank page for the last half of the year and it is being filled with so many magical colours. All that stuff I say about letting go actually holds truth. Nothing lasts forever. Not happiness and definitely not sadness. So I am savouring the joy. You can’t grasp happiness if you are busy holding on to pain. Let go. Even if it means being empty handed for a while. So this is my brag post; my amazing weekend round up. *cue music.walks away singing along to Katy Perry’s Roar.*


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