DEAR FUTURE LIFE PARTNER

Dear future life time partner. 

My pal,  my best friend,  my lover,  my number one fan,  my go to person,  my support system my back bone..... i will stop right there because i might be putting to much responsibility on you which will eventually lead to failure and my disappointment. You are only human, bound to make a mistake, listing roles for you to play in my life might  make you too focused on achieving those roles instead of you just being you in my life.

Dear future lifetime partner

I hope you're some where out there waiting and anxious to bump into me.

I constantly wonder if i will know its you the very minute i see you or will it take some years plus a big earth shaking revelation for me to realize it's you?

Are you already in my life?

Dear future lifetime partner

I look forward to sharing my hopes, dreams, with you. Taking long walks at dusk,  enjoying as many Zambian sunsets as possible, growing together spiritually, emotionally, becoming full mature adults together.

I look forward to rubbing your neck when you've had a rough day,  being there to listen when you just want to be heard.

I look forward to the many disagreements that we  are bound to have because am strong willed and opinionated but i also look forward to how we will be able to resolve these disagreements because we understand it's a normal thing to happen in a relationship.

Dear future lifetime partner

We've  both had relationships in the past from whose experience i know we've learnt and will make better decisions for ours. We've both thought they were the one but life happened now. Do not pay that any worry i'll be here when you come. We should strive to make our relationship more about us and making ourselves happy and less about our family friends and what the world on social media thinks.

Dear future lifetime partner

As i wait for you i strive to be a better person i improve who i am daily. They say you have to be the person you want to be with. Self evaluation is important and key in assessing one's strengths and weaknesses. I am discovering a little bit of both about myself everyday as i live this wonderful and yet cruel world.

I hope you can accept me as i am the good and the bad

Love

Future lifetime partner